While there is no ONE recipe for creating the ideal life, aka your Destiny, there are some key ingredients that will help make your life experience tons more fun and fulfilling. One of my favorite life philosophies is the idea that whatever does not bring you fully alive is too small for your soul. For me, this means we need stop settling for less than our heart’s desires. Stop listening to that inner voice that does nothing more than sabotage you and keep you playing small.
Instead be brave and walk away from anyone or anything that does set your spirit soaring. The life that is meant for you is patiently waiting for you to let go of what you have outgrown.
The most important ingredient to creating your ideal life “recipe” is honoring the real you—not the You that your parents or social programming have indoctrinated into you. The You that is free to enter into situations with an open heart and then leave them with an open heart. The You that is free from self-judgment and condemnation. The You that loves yourself, warts and all.
The process of knowing, honoring and loving yourself is a lifelong process, however these questions will empower you to accelerate your personal growth process so you can create your life more on purpose right NOW.
Here is a list of Self-Coaching Questions to help you gather the ingredients for your “ideal life recipe.”
1. Who am I?
2. What would I love to experience in my life?
3. What do I require to be my best self?
4. What lights me up and adds to my positive energy?
5. How do I know that I am valued, appreciated and loved?
6. What would I do if I were brave enough?
7. If I were enjoying my life to the fullest, what would be the same and what would be different?
8. What do I need to say “no or no more” to?
9. Who and what is “good for my soul?”
10. What change do I know I need to make that will help me become more aligned with my True Purpose?
11. Where in my life do I need to place more attention and focus?
It’s important to give yourself permission to put yourself first on your list of priorities. Find ways to take time to nurture yourself and discover how much time and space you require to feel truly good and fully alive.
Let’s get going. Take out your journal and answer each of these questions in detail, and begin putting into motion the right stuff for an Amazing Life.
Michelle L. Casto AKA Bright Michelle is a woman on a mission to inspire you to discover the Truth of who you are so you can
freely shine your brightest light. Whether you are changing careers, making a major life transition, or seeking more meaning from life, you can benefit from the support of an experienced mentor to assist you with navigating the tough spots of walking your highest Destiny. Michelle has worked with thousands of international clientele to find their ideal career path, expertly blending human psychology, spirituality, and the science of success into a powerful formula for personal transformation. Her proven Destiny Success Process (Awake-Shift-Shine-Succeed) empowers people to grow beyond victim mentality and shows them how to be conscious creators of their life. A prolific author of 30+ life transformation products, her latest book, is The Destiny Discovery: Find Your Soul’s Path to Success.